ive gotten alot of asks trying to see whether im okay, ect and i just wanted to make one little post before i fade back into REAL LIFE.
YEP i am very okay, this will probably be my last post for an indefinate amount of time. the only reasons im not actually deactivating my blog are, A: i am very sappy and wish to look at my old posts whilst drinking alone and mb shedding a tear, and B: if perhaps for some reason i make an art and want to share it with the internet maybe MAYBE i would do it here. ive been trying really hard to stay off tumblr and enjoy being social and productive irl, and its been really fulfilling. im working two jobs, going to art classes and living with wonderful babes. i have along way to go before i get in the place i really want to be emotionally but not going on tumblr is kinda part of that. i hope that makes sense. if you know me personally yr welcome to ask for my instagram which i update on occasion. ive still been creepin around on tumblr and liking things or whatever but im trying really hard to not post. im kinda tired of being a ~person~ on the internet if that makes any sense at all. it dont care too much if it makes any to you, cause it does too me. to those of us who were close on here, i still love you lots.
thanks for understanding, its been an interesting ride tumblr
Anonymous asked: Gosh your such a cutie and sweet and smart, totally wish I could become good friends with you! Keep being amazing :) btw I love your hair :)
Shucks anon thankyew
Anonymous asked: thank you so much for the advice/taking the time to reply! you are sooo rad and understanding and sweet. i really appreciate it <3!
No problem, happy to help! :*
Continued from the last ask: I would probably never advocate lying because you weren’t doing anything wrong and that could get complicated but I totally get that sex injuries are maybe not the most comfy conversation topics with some people. Ice it n keep it clean. Dark lipstick has helped me with a split lip before. When questioned about sex injuries before I’ve kinda just smiled and said ” it was consensual” anyway you sound smart n I bet you can handle this how you see fit when it comes to friends. Mostly I just wanna stress how important it is that you are safe and aware of eachothers needs n.boundries
Anonymous asked: (cont.), do you have any advice on how i could hide the swelling or bruises if i get any? and any idea on what i could say if anyone notices them? i can't come up with any excuse for a swollen jaw/lip haha. also, does liking that sort of thing make me really fucked up? i feel soo strange, i never knew i'd like it to that extent, ya know! i don't know what to think. sorry if this is really strange to come to you about! have a wonderful day ~
One, nope liking this kinda thing don’t make you fucked up it just makes you a kinky babe, which can be such a blessing. Being kinky keys you explore really intense parts of yrself with yr partner nd it’s really important. If yr kinky than it’s healthy to explore that nd prolly grow from that too. Before I say anything else I wanna stress the importance of trust and safety in a BDSM setting!! Read up of safewords, use one. Get really clear with yr boo about boundaries!
Anonymous asked: hii i need some advice/reassurance and i don't know who else to turn to, cause it's personal, and i feel that you'd understand (i hope you don't mind!). last night my boyfriend and i were having sex, and we realized we like it rougher than we thought, like harder slaps than usual, that sort of thing. he ended up splitting my lip and now it's swollen and my jaw is too a bit. the thing is i live with my older bro and i dont want anyone thinking its an abusive relationship, so ---> (continued)
Still don’t feel normal but I’m goin to work wish me luuuuck